but maybe eating healthy is what makes her happy? idk i mean you don’t really need to eat unhealthy foods to be healthy?

im totally fine if that is what makes her happy. she’s my cousin and i want best for her but, what i don’t like is the constant reminders and comments and hushed words that her mom is always telling her like “eat healthy, exercise, don’t eat that you’ll be fat, etc” it bugs me.. i don’t think she should be using those words to motivate her to be healthy and loose weight.